My wife and I have been together for 2 years now and it’s been mostly okay between us. She’s really confident and worked hard on her body so she likes to get revealing clothes which I do respect, but when I saw the bikini she got it was way more revealing then anything she’s ever worn. I’m in no way trying to control her so I always feel the guilt, and just accept it.
It’s one of those bikinis that fit tighter and a thong, it doesn’t help she got a size smaller, so basically her entire ass is out and if she bends over at all it doesn’t even really cover her literal butthole. No other women at the party had a bikini like that, so she really stood out. I noticed many guys eyeing her up so I asked her if she could put a towel on when we were hanging out drinking and that’s when the heat started. I let it go, didn’t want a fight.
We all got in the pool later, everyone was pretty drunk including myself. Her bikini started falling apart on the strings since it’s too small, and I kept trying to fix it for her. It fucking sucked being in that position. When we got home I was pretty mad and said some things making her upset, and she’s telling me I can’t control what she wears and I’m insecure if I’m afraid of someone seeing her body.
I don’t know how to feel or what to do because everything’s perfect besides this little thing. It just makes me feel jealous really easily, I’m trying to not be “insecure” about who sees her body but I didn’t want her basically naked in front of a bunch of her friends and their husbands/boyfriends.
