Hi, my sister came back from her ‘vacations’ a few days ago.
I waited for her to come back because I didn’t wanted her to run away from telling our parents what happened and I wanted HER to be the one to tell them everything.
My sister lives with our parents (no, she’s not a teenager, she’s almost thirty. I don’t know why someone in the comments said that she was suffering from grooming when she’s 28. There’s even +40 years old people in college and anyways you need to be an adult to be there) So when she arrived I was already there. When my parents asked me what the hell happened to me I told them to wait for my sister to come to talk about it so they already knew that this was about her.
Many people don’t understand that there are people who likes to be the second and enjoy feeling that they can sleep with anyone, even with a ‘forbidden’ one and my sister is that type of person.
Since she was a teenager she flirted with her friends’ boyfriends, she did it to measure her value with others (But she never flirted with any of my boyfriends, at least she has her limits). Now that she is older she likes to sleep with married mans, for her it is better to receive gifts and fun without the pressure of being the wife (her words, we discussed this many times). At the end of the day it’s all an self-esteem and ego problem that my sister has, she needs to know that she can get whatever she wants.
Anyway, a few days ago the cheating man had sent a message to my sister telling her that his wife beat him and kicked him out of the house after she found out about his affair with my sister.
The woman found my sister’s IG and sent her messages telling her to stay away from her family because apparently the man took their kids to some of the dates with my sister and my sister, who is a big idiot, followed the fight with the woman insulting her (she showed me the chat and was clearly encouraging the woman to fight, calling her names, etc) and that’s how I ended up getting beaten.
According to my sister, she didn’t believe that the woman was really going to hit her but then I started to message her and she basically ignored me because didn’t wanted to get that kind of stress and also because she knew she screwed up.
Honestly, so many comments told me that my sister was not to blame for anything that I began to believe it… Until I saw the messages she sent to that woman almost begging for a beating and I stopped feeling any kind of empathy for her, she’s not a good person and never was. I was furious but but my mother was even more angry.
It is not the first time that my family has been affected because of her sexual adventures, this time we did not lose money or friends but I was physically attacked which is worse. My sister justified herself by saying that she is single and has no responsibility for any marriage, but my mother told her that we all suffer because of her problematic behavior and that morally she’s helping to ruin the lives of many because of her ego.
It all ended with my sister throwing a tantrum like always and even blaming ME for looking like her but this time my father kicked her out of the house with her things, I found it a little sad that my own parents apologized to me for their adult daughter’s behavior. In the end of the day I feel sad to see my parents and other people because of her behavior.
And about the woman, She contacted me the next day I got beaten and was really sorry, she said she would pay for any medical expenses but I’m fine. She sounded much calmer without her friends and told me that she had never done anything like that but she felt a very strong hatred for my sister and her ex because of how they talked about her with the children. Although she sounded really regretful, a large part of me wanted her to kick my sister’s ass, but that’s not going to happen. Even if that doesn’t make me a good person, I would have liked to see that.
I’m sorry for the boring update(? But not much happened except that, she didn’t sended me a message or anything like that. Anyways, I just pray that my parents still don’t talk to her so I can see her as little as possible.
