This niece is my brother daughter and she is 23. For more than a year I felt she is looking way too much at my husband (40) but my mind couldn’t accept this and I told myself I am crazy. I know she admires him, she is very vocal about it.
I didn’t do anything because I never saw anything suspicious on his side. My brother is a loser to be frank and a stupid excuse of a father. Drinks, gambles and usually unemployed. My husband collects him frequently from hospital and pays for the medicine he has for liver.
A lot of times when my niece was still a child I took care of her, cooked for her, got her ready for school. Her mother left with someone else and she abandoned her with her father.
My husband is the complete opposite of him. He takes care of his appearance, has successful business, 45 employees. She looks up to him and said she learnt a lot from him about how a business work. When the line was really crossed was when one day she insisted to iron his suit. He always wears suits and ties and she wanted to prepare it for him.
I was very busy with my 7 years old daughter who had a hard time getting used to the new school and I let it pass. A very stressful period for me. And she “helped”. I told her I will just order food everyday, but she wanted to be useful, so she said. She cooked what \*he\* liked to eat, never asked what we want, just what he wants.
And 3 days ago I found out he slept with her while I was away on business trip. I let my daughter with them in the house. But he took her to my mother. I actually got a anonymous text, which turned out to be from a friend of hers. I hoped it’a stupid joke. But I told him I know he slept with her and he started apologising and explaining that it happened just once, that they had wine and… it happened. I don’t know what to do now.
